Sunday, June 27, 2010

A fun filled weekend

This weekend I went to my first Arabic wedding reception. We thought we were going to the wedding but when the groom told us to get ready, we quickly found that we had missed the ceremony and were instead going to the formal reception. It wasn't like anything any of us expected. Men and women were in separate rooms and in the women's room for about 2 hours we all watched as the bride, groom, and their nuclear families danced. Most of the time I was the source of entertainment for a group of girls all under the age of 12. Once they found out that I and the group of girls I was with, could all speak a little Arabic, they were in heaven. Near the end of the reception, when roughly half the people had already left, a group of men came over and for about 15 minutes there was an open dance floor.

After the reception (where we were only fed cake), some of us were starving. Unfortunately most things are closed on Fridays and that's especially true around 11:30 pm. Luckily, we came across a kid making kebabs on the side of the road. While we were waiting, a group of guys came over to talk to us. None on them were older than 19 yet all of them had been shot in the last 5 years by Israeli soldiers. One of the boys had an older brother who has been in an Israeli prison for 28 years.

The other eye opening part of the trip was visiting and spending the night in Balata, the largest refugee camp in the West Bank. I was told about 20,000 people live there. If my conversions are right, they live on about 750 acres. Walking around I felt like I was in an "Old City." Everything is close together, the alleys are very narrow and people lack privacy. Throughout the camp there were UN schools and various other buildings. Supposedly all of the water is provided by the UN and some people receive rations from them as well.

Balata sits directly across from Jacob's Well, a convent for the Greek Orthodox Church. In the basement of the church sits Jacob's Well. I tried to find information about it and all I could find is that supposedly Jesus made a rest stop at the well which means I literally walked in the footsteps of Jesus!

In my last post, I promised pictures so here are a few from Varanasi, Oman and a few from my time here.



One of the narrow alleys in the camp.

Jacob's Well

The dome of the Jacob's Well Convent and church

My bedroom in my apartment.
The kitchen.



An Omani liquor store.


The migrant workers I met as well as some SAP volunteers.

Giles and Grady as pirates.

My favorite past time was taking photos of Grady.


Giles after he lost his second tooth.

Omani mountains. I love them because they are so bare.


The Sultan's palace.

The beach.

Hanging with Marcie.

In an Omani grocery store.

Apparently you can buy happiness.

Nightly puja in Varanasi.

Looking out at the main ghat (in the distance).

The Ganges River and ghats along the coast.

Sunday, June 20, 2010

This week my Modern Standard professor announced that we'll be having our midterm exam on Monday. A few days later my colloquial professor announced that our midterm will be the week after next. How is it time for midterms already? I feel like I just got here but apparently we just ended the third week of classes. Time is flying.

Unfortunately, nothing very exciting is going on in my life. I go to school and after I finish my homework I try to catch up on the television shows I watch in America (CSI, House and Glee). This afternoon I watched the season finale of Glee so now I don't have anymore tv shows.

Oh wait, something mildly exciting did happen this week. I went to the butcher for the first time. Let's just say that proper sanitation isn't really something important here. When I arrived, the butcher was chopping up some beef for a couple. He wasn't wearing any gloves and when he finished, he put the meat in a bag and then took the money from them. When it was my turn, using the same (uncleaned) knife, cutting space and dirty hands, he cut my chicken for me. I guess cross contamination isn't a problem here. The hypochondriac and the American inside of me instantly thought of all the things I could get sick and die from. The carnivore in me that was excited about getting meat at home for the first time since I've been here, didn't pay attention and happily took the sack of meat. I'd like to point out that the entire exchange was in Arabic.

I was told by a friend that you should eat meat on the same day you buy it here. I wasn't about to eat an entire kilo of chicken in one day, so I made it last over the week. I'll admit, with every passing day the smell became less pleasant but maybe that's because it's so fresh and lacks preservatives. I mean it is a dead animal, it shouldn't smell delicious until it's cooked. Maybe I risked my health and life by eating it but currently I feel fine. I've got a stomach of steel (I ate street food in India and drank the water and never got sick) so I'm not worried. Although if I do get sick, I'm sticking with the motto of "whatever doesn't kill you, makes you stronger." Also, if I get sick, it will make for an awesome story! Assuming I don't die of course . . .

In other news, I've been catching up with friends. I talked to my friend Nikoo for the first time since early April. She was worried that I might be dead since she hasn't heard from me in a while. Ironically, I was thinking the same thing about her. She's in her first year of med school and we never hear from her so when more than 6 weeks have passed we often worried if she's dead or not. Med school is intense and people don't take care of themselves, you never know.

Prior to catching up with Nikoo, I talked to my best friend on g chat. With the exception of a few text message conversations (sorry mom, that's why I had so many texts this month) we also haven't talked since April. In addition to that, I talked to my friend Mia. It was great to talk to everyone, but one of the highlights was skyping with my friend Yorda who is in the Peace Corps in Morocco. She's almost as crazy about KU as I am so it's always nice to discuss the team I love with someone else who understands. She's also been a great resource for the times when getting abroad gets to me, as well as someone who can simply relate to what I'm going through. We haven't talked since KU lost in the second round, so that was definitely a much needed catching up session.

I recently uploaded my pictures from Oman and Varanasi so my next post will be pictures.

Continuing to engage in adventures . . .

Sunday, June 6, 2010

Last weekend after placement exams and walking around to get to know both Ramallah and Birzet, I took a couple of trips. The first was to Taybeh, a small village about half an hour away which is famous for it's brewery which is the only producer of beer in the entire Middle East! The brewery is kind of small but we took a tour and learned all about the town and company. Everyone thought the owners were crazy but now they successfully export to several parts of Europe. The beer is also available in Palestine and Israel. n case anyone was wondering, Taybeh Beer is owned by Christians. After touring the brewery, we walked around the city and visited a Byzantine Church that is over 1700 years old! The current building has was built about 20 years ago, but in the floor there are tiles from the original building in Phoenician!

The second trip was to Nablus. One of the girls in my program (Tarren) spent last summer volunteering in Nablus and she set up a tour of the Old City for us. Until recently, Nablus was blocked off from the rest of the West Bank by the Israeli Military. In fact, the organization Tarren volunteered for, was started after an Israeli invasion in 2002 when only foreigners were allowed outside. Palestinians were under an indefinite 24 hour curfew. Project Hope, the organization, would send foreign volunteers to different housing blocks with activities to entertain the children. Over the last 7 years they have grown to include other aspects but providing activities for children is still an important element.

Although Nablus is now open, it is still recovering from the invasion. As we walked around the Old City we saw buildings that were destroyed by the Israeli military. At every turn there were bullet holes to remind you of the constant fire Nablus citizens faced. There were also random posters of Palestinian men with guns all over the place. We were told that these were martyrs killed during the invasion. Walking around was depressing. We were shown building after building that has been negatively impacted because of the invasion. Many businesses suffered during the blockade. For centuries Nablus has produced soap. Over time hundreds of factories had dwindled to 7. Now there are only 2.

The other depressing part was hearing the stories. Everywhere we went there was a story and when you thought you’d heard the worst, there was something even more horrible. From innocent men being captured and then put in a building that the Israelis later bombed, to families being shot in their homes, as well as our tour guide trying to save a man who had been shot but had to leave the man in the middle of the road in order to save himself . . . it was a bit much. I know there is another side to the story and Israel feels the need to protect their security but is more violence the way to create peace? I don't think so. Walking around I felt kind of sick, not just because of what I was seeing, but because I am an American and my government supports the government that was responsible for all of this. I’m trying to keep an open mind and see both sides of the story, but it’s difficult when you take a trip to Israel and then go to Palestine and see the drastic differences.

I think the most depressing thing was the fact that many of us were hearing about this for the first time. One of the girls on the tour mentioned how 2002 wasn’t that long ago and she was 16, yet she had never heard of Nablus before our tour. Perhaps things are more censored in the US than we thought? After the raids on the humanitarian ships on Monday, I searched American newspapers to see what was being said. Here, that was the only thing on the news for about 36 hours. I didn’t even hear about the cyclone in Oman until a day after it hit, because of all the raid coverage. Contrast this with the coverage in the States, I read article after article and not only did I learn absolutely nothing; most were read in less than a minute. Maybe this was because this was in the hours immediately after the raid and it was only 4 am on the east coast? Obviously there was more coverage here because it’s actually happening here, but I would have thought there would have been more info in the US. Even the BBC let me down. Not only were their initial articles lacking information but they were blatantly biased. Most BBC reports try to include both sides of the issue, these initial articles did not.

In the midst of all of that, school started. I suppose it’s called intense for a reason because after the first week of classes, I was exhausted. I’ve got Arabic for 6 hours a day, four days a week. On Tuesdays and Thursdays I have a class called The Palestine Question. Our professor is really awesome and has some fantastic stories. Starting when he was 15 and for the next 7 years, he was imprisoned by the Israelis. Throughout his life he has been in and out of prison but that hasn’t stopped him from getting involved in politics. Currently he is number two in command for the ministry of prisons for Palestine. Israel is one of the few countries in the world that has a ministry of prisons. I’m really excited for the class. Obviously it’s going to be subjective but our professor has pledged that if we object with anything he says, he will provide the evidence, so I have confidence that a majority of what he says has some factual basis.

Other than that, nothing exciting has really happened, except on Tuesday, I flooded the apartment. The hose that drains the dirty water wasn’t hooked up properly and all of the water ended up on our floor. Throughout my time in India, all I wanted was the ability to wash my clothes in a washing machine. Now that I finally have that, I think I prefer hand washing. It’s tedious but less messy. It took about 2 hours to clean up all of the water. Since that night, we’ve fixed the hose but there are still problems. For instance, the only cycle that actually works, takes about 2 hours! Two hours to wash one load of clothes? Ridiculous. The shorter cycles don’t drain the dirty water so if you don't reset to the end of the next cycle, when you open the washer, all of the water pours out. I’m making the best of it, but I can’t wait to go home and wash and dry my clothes properly.

Speaking of home, it’s recently occurred to me that since I’ve been abroad, I’ve lacked personal space. With the exception of the three weeks I spent in Nepal, Varanasi, and Oman, where I had my own room, I’ve had to share a room, which will be true in Thailand as well. Also, in India and here, all transportation is shared. To cut down on personal costs, we always shared rickshaws in India. Here, everyone uses the shared taxis called a Service (pronounced in French). About 7-8 people pile into a van and you pay about 75 cents in comparison to the taxis where you pay a minimum of $3. It will be so weird when I return home where I’ll have my own room and most of the time I will drive in a car by myself. Being an only child, solitude was a natural part of life; now it’s rare and I’m not sure how I feel about returning to it.

Yesterday my friend Zeyad and I went to a fusion Palestinian and Italian restaurant. We had to talk 15 minutes to get there, but it was definitely worth it. I had the best calzone I have ever had in my life! It was filled with pesto, mozzarella and a meat that I couldn’t identity. The menu didn’t mention any meat but I didn’t mind because it was delicious. There were also sundried tomatoes and a vegetable or two but I was too absorbed in eating it that I didn’t really pay attention. The restaurant was a little pricey, but I definitely want to go back before I leave.

Zeyad ’s kind of like my little brother. He’s from New Jersey and he just finished his freshman year at Rutgers. He’s half Palestinian and speaks Arabic fluently. We met on the first day and he offered to show me around since his father’s family lives here and he’s been to the West Bank at least 20 times. I took him up on his offer and in addition to showing me around, I’ve made him my translator. He’s also in charge of introducing me to Palestinian food. In exchange for all that he does, I’ve agreed to cook him breakfast on the weekends and dinner occasionally. So maybe little brother isn’t the best description, especially since he’s doing all of the teaching but he is younger and we’ve got each other’s backs like a brother and sister would, so I thought it was a fitting title.